My parents are truly amazing. It took me a few years to realize just how wonderful they really are.
I took my mother for granted until I almost lost her in 1995. She had a brain aneurysm, resulting in two brain surgeries (extremely risky) and an eye surgery as well. It was like walking in a nightmare, in that it also didn’t feel real. I knew that it was happening, but the effects didn’t hit me until the years following the event. We all fondly joke about it now, even so much as to tease our mother about having a computer chip installed in her brain (she had a titanium clip put in as part of the process) that the doctors forgot to give her the access code to. Anyways, my mother is very emotional and is known to cry in just about every movie. (Again, I tease with all the love in my heart.) But she and I can hang out like sisters and have many similar interests and hobbies. We are finding ourselves saying everything at the same time… as scary as that is to me. Lol. I am so lucky to still have her.

My dad and I struggled through my teen years, but I couldn’t ask to be closer to him now. I am definitely a "daddy's girl"! I love having talks with him and I feel comfortable talking with him about almost anything. He is my source of advice and wisdom that I seek on a pretty constant occasion. And on the lighter side, he is the “punny-est” guy around. Seriously, he can joke when people don’t even know he’s pulling their leg. (He’s literally had people come back two weeks after he’s made a “funny” and told him that they finally got it. Even funnier, by then he doesn’t even know what he said!) Both of my parents are extremely wonderful to everyone they meet and are very generous. I love my parents and couldn’t be happier that I got “stuck” with them.
Next my brothers… first of all, I am so proud of each one of them. Though we may not always agree or see eye-to-eye, I appreciate the uniqueness they each possess and special moments I have with them. They also are very deserving of special praise as they are all in the Armed Forces. Tim has already served his country overseas, and Jordan and Joseph are joining the madness by the end of the year. My hats off to them for joining in the midst of the conflict and for being proud to serve their country, even when it seems that much of the country dismisses their services as a much needed help at this time in the world’s history.

Tim has a wonderful way with people. Whether it’s his sense of
humor that really can get a room of people hysterical or the way he holds people on the edge of their seats in an engaging conversation. Very active and always on the go, I love being around him.

Jordan, as I chuckle to myself, always puts a smile on my face. Even if he’s angry, he can make you laugh with the presentation and animation in his voice and actions. Everything is larger than life with him. He is a wonderful daddy and I miss him and his wife and kids.

Heather, his wife, is a red-headed fireball of Irish decent that just adds to the exuberance of the family. She is also wonderful in the kitchen and makes the cutest nephews and nieces in the world, Caleb and Chloe whom I love and miss terribly.

(photo by Heather Wachtman)
Joseph, well, besides being a smart-alec, he is entertaining and always has input beyond what the textbooks even have to say. Hopefully someday we’ll see all of that knowledge put to good use with whatever he decides to do as a career, he truly has an amazing mind that holds everything that it comes into contact with. He is very family oriented and holds close those things most dear to him. My littlest brother with the biggest outlook on life.

I know that my family isn’t small, but each one has a special place in my heart and is an important part of my life! I love every one of them very much and look forward to getting closer as the years fly by.
Overall, my family is crazy, very strange and hilarious on most occasions. Before I end this post I have to share a memory that illustrates just that and makes me laugh every time I think about it. First of all, it was dinner time… and that in my family is where all the craziness comes out. It was shortly after the “new” Star Wars movie came out, (the first or fourth, depending on where you count from) with Jar Jar Binks. (Hope I spelled that right…) We were recounting our favorite moments in the movie and found ourselves talking about the part where his tongue gets zapped by a part of one of the pod racers and it goes numb, hanging limply and hilariously out of his mouth. Sitting at the table, eating… yes, most or all members of my family were commenting with our tongues hanging out of our mouths. During this I thought to myself that it would be funny if someone were to come in at that moment and see us all like that. Of course, that got me giggling and I had to share my thought with everyone else. Then there was a knock at the door. I bust a gut laughing so hard. But, that’s just another mealtime with my family…